Why We Seek

"The Fight helped me see everything more clearly from God's perspective, particularly our true role as men and warriors for truth. It's obvious that somewhere along the way men gave up their swords. Without Godly men, there are no leaders; the foundation has nothing to stand on; and the designed order is broken. It's clear to me that our Lord, the one called Faithful and True who will come on a white horse, has purposed to call His men to attention...and give them back their Sword."

Chad Starliper
Rather & Kittrell Capital Management,
Director of Financial Planning
Married, no children
Age: 33
Sound Familiar?

• Are you sick and tired of being told to sit down, be nice, and stay out of trouble - Why can't you just be a man?
• Wonder why that, in your relationships with women, you either let things slide to keep the peace or blow up and lose it - Then get mad at yourself for doing either one?
• Is this it - is this what life's all about? Did you find that the answer you got from your dad never really panned out - if he answered it at all?
• Why does society want to emasculate men - Why does it continue - Where have all the real men gone?

Ever heard these things said to you and/or had these thoughts go through your mind?

• "You've got to have a great woman in your life and then you can be a real man"
• "One of life's biggest mistakes is to really trust someone"
• "For the 'little things' - If you don't like something or think its wrong you don't take a stand - just lie and go along - anything else is being selfish and is not nice"
• "You don't appreciate anything anyone does for you - you're just selfish"
• "You're accumulating a long list of missed opportunities - just think of how great you could've been"
• "You will probably never make it - there really is no complete satisfaction in life"
• "Nobody can live up to your standard - and so - be prepared for a life of being let down"

Ever struggle with these dilemmas?

• "Worry about yourself first - BUT YET - you must try to follow the golden rule of doing to others as you would have them do to you"
• "It's ok to lie if your intentions are good or if you're trying to save yourself - BUT YET - honesty is the most important characteristic of a man - a man's word is his bond"
• "It's a dog eat dog world - watch out for yourself - BUT YET - always do the right thing"

Surely you could answer yes to most if not all of these - if so, you are not alone. All men struggle with these type thoughts or questions - and that's the purpose of The Fight - to find answers to these questions. Yes, believe it or not, these are the questions that will be answered during your time in The Fight - you don't want to miss the opportunity to offer it or attend a session wherever you may be.